I'm a girl in my 20s

Join me on navigating love, family, and self as a 21-year-old girl living in Los Angeles. Through my blogs I’ll share my experiences and lessons that lead me here. I hope that by reading me, you’ll relate from a shared circumstance and learn a lesson either from me or with me.

Originally, I’m a girl in my 20s, was just a 3 A.M. rant on Dec. 13th 2024 in the notes app of my phone. What I didn’t know at the time, was that it was message to my future self that I am human. Here’s what it said,

Im a girl in my 20s,

My eyebrows are sisters not twins

I download hinge for attention just to delete it after two days because they’re not him!

I want bigger glutes but I’m not consistent in the gym

I don’t chase after men because I know who I am and who I want to become!

I own ten pairs of black boots with different heel sizes

I regret the tattoo on my forearm that I got at 18

My rings turn my fingers green!

I cant find my foundation shade

MY LEFT BOOB IS BIGGER THAN MY RIGHT!!

A big inspiration for this 3 A.M. rant has to do with the phrase “I’m just a girl” The saying signifies honesty within yourself by acknowledging that you are only human and (I hope) learning from a mistake.

Big or small, you’re going to mess up, you will probably hurt people without meaning to and you may lose relationships, but if you work on the toxicity in yourself to end the cycle, you will realize that its a weak trait to have to not learning from your mistakes. “I’m just a girl” becomes less of a plea and more of a declaration, not of weakness but of self-awareness. Own your flaws without letting them define you, become comfortable with saying, “I was wrong” when all the cards unfold because in that moment of clarity you’ve already become a newer you.